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Der perfekte blow-job??

10. Dezember 2005 um 22:12

Hallo Zusammen,

ich brauche dringend eure Hilfe. Mein Freund hat mir gestern gebeichtet das meine blasetechnik nicht gut ist. Das hat mich echt getroffen.., habt ihr mir vielleicht Tipps? Wie bringt ihr die Männer zum "schwitzen"??

Noch eine Frage? Bringt ihr eure Männer zum Kommen während dem Oralverkehr?

Ich schaffe es nicht.

Bitte brauche Tipps.., Tipps.., Tipps..

10. Dezember 2005 um 23:37

Blasen
Hallo,
ganz gut ist wenn man mit dem Tempo varriert, mal ganz langsam und zart, dann schneller und härter. Direkt vor dem Kommen, kann man wieder verlangsamen, dann ist der O wohl heftiger. Gut macht sich dann auch die Hand zu benutzen. Ach so, und immer schön an dem Hodensack denken, den nicht vernachlässigen, aber nicht zu hart sein. Für fortgeschrittene(und entspannte) kann ich auf jeden Fall auch Prostata-MAssage empfehlen (oder einfach den Finger in seinen Hintern stecken).

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11. Dezember 2005 um 23:33

Sehr gute Tipps, auch wenns Englisch ist:
Fine Art of Fellatio

Oh, now where to begin with this one. I cant say that Ive ever met a man who didnt like to have his cock sucked on. As a matter of fact that would probably rate as the biggest turn on if men had to pick just one aspect of sex as their favorite. At least thats my take on the subject.
Performing fellatio on your partner can be the biggest turn on there is. I know that when Im in the mood for sucking cock that I thoroughly enjoy it. Times like that it isnt important if my partner reciprocates or not, because Im lost in making him feel good. At other times it is a nice prelude to intercourse when you exchange oral sex with your partner. When I suck on my partners penis weve found that he can usually last a lot longer when it comes to the actual intercourse, which is really awesome!
First off, you need to take a look at your partners penis. One of the first things you will notice is whether or not he is circumcised. This may make for subtle differences when you are sucking on your partners penis, as when they are uncircumcised the handling of the penis is a little bit different. Peniss come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Unless you a size queen the length and girth of your partners cock should not be an issue. The average male penis size is in the five to six inch range when erect and the average girth when erect is about five inches.
Run your fingers up and down the length of his cock as you examine it. You will find that he doesnt remain soft for very long. Feel the texture of the skin that covers the ball sac. You will also notice that at different times the ball sac can become quite heavy and the skin over it quite tight. At other times it will be very loose and feel much lighter.
Tease your partner. Lick his balls and the insides of his thighs but stay away from actually touching his cock. Make him squirm a little first. When you first start out take your time and use slow deliberate strokes and cover the whole length of his cock. In my experience sucking on my partners cock isnt enough to get him off, there also needs to be plenty of hand action on his cock as well as on his balls. The two work very well together. Lubrication is a good idea. It wouldnt be a good thing to all of a sudden have your hand stuck to your partners cock because theres no lubrication. The best lubrication Ive found comes just from using your saliva. Instead of swallowing all the saliva just let it dribble down onto your hand and his cock. It keeps everything fairly well lubricated.
There are many positions from which you can give your partner fellatio. Im going to list some of the ones that have worked well for my partner and myself. There is no right or wrong way to position yourself, your best bet is to experiment with different positions and see what works best for you and your partner. Experimentation is half the fun.
Kneeling in this situation have your partner either stand or perhaps sit on the edge of the bed or couch or chair (whatever works for you) and then you kneel between his feet and give the fellatio from that angle. One drawback to this is that I find that my knees really cant take this position for extended periods of time.
69 this is always a favorite for most people. You can give and receive in this position; you just have to remember to concentrate on what youre doing for your partner. This can sometimes be a very difficult task to say the least. I prefer to be on top so that I have a little more control of my partners penis and what Im trying to do with it.
Side by side you can lay down alongside your partner in either direction. Have your partner lay partially on his side so that you can reach his penis as well as his balls.
Over top by over top I mean have your partner lay down on the bed flat on his back, you kneel beside him on either the right or the left side and then put your head down over his penis and pubic area from that angle.
This portion of the tutorial will deal with some of the various techniques that you can use to bring your partner great pleasure and have him moaning for more. Trust me, they always want more!
To start you might want to just lick your partners penis all over, from top to bottom feeling the texture of it, supplying moisture to the area. Just little licks here and there. Dont forget the balls, they play a very important part in the overall stimulation of your partner. They are definitely part of the package and should have lots of attention lavished on them.
Now you can move on to another technique that works rather well. Take your partners penis in your mouth and close down your lips around the head of the penis. Dont take too much into your mouth at this time. Then take your tongue and swirl it over the tip of his penis. You can apply a little bit of pressure with your mouth and release while you are doing this. Its also been said that if you hum while sucking on your partners penis that the vibration will add to the stimulation.
By sliding your mouth back from the previous technique you can then suckle the tip of his penis and use varying amounts of pressure. Be sure to pay attention to your partners reaction. The object isnt to cause your partner any pain, unless of course they are into it, which is a completely different tutorial. You can add a bit of variety to this technique by making a point of your tongue and running it around the edge of the penis where the shaft meets the head. This area is fairly sensitive in most men and is sure to get a reaction.
Pretend that your partners penis is a big lollipop or an all day sucker and then proceed to lick it in the same fashion. This can be great fun to try. If youd like to add extra enjoyment use a small amount of flavored lube or even put whipped cream on his penis to lick off or make a giant banana split out of him. Its great fun to lick it all off and make sure that you dont miss any spots.
An interesting way to stimulate your partners penis is to hold it in your mouth (similar to when you see people holding a rose in their teeth) and run your mouth and tongue up and down the full length of it. You could do this for several strokes and then dip down to lick the balls or at the top slide the tip of the penis into your mouth.
To swallow or not? The answer to this question is based solely on personal preference of both the partners. Some women love to swallow and others dont. Some men love for their partner to swallow their cum while others would prefer to see it spray all over the place mostly on their partner.
Taste is an issue when it comes to swallowing, many women simply dont like the taste of their partners cum. There appears to be some information that indicates that the taste of semen can be influenced by your partners diet. You and your partner can experiment with omitting various foods from your diet to see if they make a difference to the taste of the semen. There are several foods that are reputed to sweeten the taste of semen; they include parsley, papaya, pineapple juice, and bananas. Red meat has the reputation of making the semen taste more acidic. Last but not least are coffee and alcohol, both of which are reputed to cause a bitter taste in the semen.

Swallowing most men tend to get off on their partner swallowing their cum. Youll want to be careful with this one so that you can do it in a manner that doesnt make you gag. Theres nothing more unromantic than your partner hearing you sound as though youre hacking up some huge fur ball. Trust me, this does happen and tends to kind of interrupt the moment. My partner and I had this happen the other day as a matter of fact and we both dissolved in laughter, it was very amusing. Im just glad that there was no videotape running to catch that live! Although I am sure that with a new partner this might not be quite so amusing.
One thing to remember is that once your partner has cum and youve either swallowed or not, dont let go of his cock and think youre done, keep sucking lightly on the tip of it as its usually really sensitive after cumming. You can watch him squirm and moan quite nicely.


So, hoffe das hilft, viel Spaß euch beiden! Und vergiss nicht, dass er dich hinterher angemessen für deine "Arbeit" entlohnen sollte...

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12. Dezember 2005 um 2:10

Richtig
da stimm ich vollkommen zu. ich find es auch total daneben, dass er einfach sagt, dass du das nicht gut machst und er dich mit dem problem allein lässt. schließlich gibst du ihm ja was, wenn d ihm einen bläst und diese bereitschaft sollte er auf jeden fall schon mal zu schätzen wissen. ich blase echt gern, aber nur wenn er es auch zu schätzen weiß und schließlich kann man nur zusammen herausfinden, was oder welche techniken für einander geil sind oder funktionieren, ein partner allein kann das eigentlich gar nicht, meiner meinung nach. hat er vielleicht auch dabei wenigstens efragt, ob es dir gefällt, wie er dich befreidigt. ich würd echt nochmal ausführlich mit ihm darüber reden.

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13. Dezember 2005 um 9:11

Übertriebene maskuline Forderungen

Als Mann mit ausreichend Lebenserfahrung weiß ich, externe Hilfestellungen sind manchmal hilfreich, aber zusammenkommen müssen die Partner selbst, auch miteinander "dabei darüber" sprechen, wenn dies der Beziehung und dem Spass an der Sache dient!!.

So mögen die deutschen Lektionen von "hohlihnmirraus" als Hilfestellung dienen, jedoch nur teilweise. Da hat ein Mann aus einem maskulinem egozentrischen Weltbild geschrieben, vielleicht im Eindruck des erfolgreichsten Pornofilms "Deep Throat".

Also Mädels, laßt auch eure Männer an euch arbeiten, die machn nämlich beim Cunnilingus auch nicht immer eine gute Arbeit!!!


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10. Juli 2016 um 19:41


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10. Juli 2016 um 23:26

Kauf dir das Buch:
"Die perfekte Liebhaberin"
Hat mir ungemein geholfen- und hör drauf, was er dir sagt. Er soll dire sagen, was ihm gefällt.

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11. Juli 2016 um 12:57

@llovelyjaninal
11 Jahre für einen Beitrag hier ist ja gerade noch so zeitnah.

Sorry, aber dieser Beitrag muss schon recht weit unten gestanden haben, zeigt eigentlich nur die Notgeilheit die hier herrscht.

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